anon I know exactly who you're talking about but there was a perfectly legitimate reason for wanting to take her ipad with her? she was going into the first procedure of many that had a number of possible side effects like completely wiping her memory and she was alone; I'd want a tether to my friends as long as possible too.

can't say much for the latter other than textbook depression but if you can't be assed to know, may as well remove her if it's grating on you.