This is still PR, but I'm doing tags, and I don't want to ruin my open tabs by switching back into Crowley's account.
For starters, I'm glad you recognize that this isn't my problem, because a large part of why I'm annoyed is that I was dragged into someone else's problems for absolutely no reason. One or two people in this thread seem to have a large problem with me, which I'm more than happy to deal with, because it involves me. Wankgate is a community that allows anon to vent their honest feelings about other players and I am more than happy to respond to them, so long as they concern me. I don't really give a damn about the other namedrop threads, because that's up to that player to deal with their own wank or lackthereof.
Secondly, I am not going to speak on Nic's behalf, because she's a big girl and she can do that herself. I am going to say that Nic has never once asked me for money, for paid time, to listen to her "whine", or has acted passive aggressive toward me. I have little tolerance for people taking advantage of others or being passive aggressive, which most if not all of my friends can attest to. Rest assured that if Nic tried to do this with me, especially considering my own financial situation, I would have told her that she can deal with 15 icons. However, she has not, and if she has done that with you (which I doubt, but that's my own personal experience), then maybe you should stand up for yourself and tell her to stop doing that.
Most of the problems I see in this thread involve people who seem to be incapable of telling people their own boundaries. If you have a problem with Nic, then fine -- you have a problem with her, but go do something about it. Stirring shit on Wankgate is not going to solve the problem you have with this individual. If you really dislike her so much and you have such a problem with her being a shitstain of society, then defriend her and move on. By asking me to defend my friendship with her, you are emulating the passive aggression you seem to loathe so much, and that is why I am so irritated. This entire thread is full of hypocrisy and namecalling and nothing concrete is being accomplished.
In short, I'm friends with Nic because she's been nothing short of a kind and generous person to me. I have never once felt pressured or threatened by her -- and any issues I have, I would take to her personally. I am in a cast with her in two games and I have never once had an issue with her. The day that changes, which I doubt it will, but if it does, I will deal with it like a big girl and move on with my life.
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For starters, I'm glad you recognize that this isn't my problem, because a large part of why I'm annoyed is that I was dragged into someone else's problems for absolutely no reason. One or two people in this thread seem to have a large problem with me, which I'm more than happy to deal with, because it involves me. Wankgate is a community that allows anon to vent their honest feelings about other players and I am more than happy to respond to them, so long as they concern me. I don't really give a damn about the other namedrop threads, because that's up to that player to deal with their own wank or lackthereof.
Secondly, I am not going to speak on Nic's behalf, because she's a big girl and she can do that herself. I am going to say that Nic has never once asked me for money, for paid time, to listen to her "whine", or has acted passive aggressive toward me. I have little tolerance for people taking advantage of others or being passive aggressive, which most if not all of my friends can attest to. Rest assured that if Nic tried to do this with me, especially considering my own financial situation, I would have told her that she can deal with 15 icons. However, she has not, and if she has done that with you (which I doubt, but that's my own personal experience), then maybe you should stand up for yourself and tell her to stop doing that.
Most of the problems I see in this thread involve people who seem to be incapable of telling people their own boundaries. If you have a problem with Nic, then fine -- you have a problem with her, but go do something about it. Stirring shit on Wankgate is not going to solve the problem you have with this individual. If you really dislike her so much and you have such a problem with her being a shitstain of society, then defriend her and move on. By asking me to defend my friendship with her, you are emulating the passive aggression you seem to loathe so much, and that is why I am so irritated. This entire thread is full of hypocrisy and namecalling and nothing concrete is being accomplished.
In short, I'm friends with Nic because she's been nothing short of a kind and generous person to me. I have never once felt pressured or threatened by her -- and any issues I have, I would take to her personally. I am in a cast with her in two games and I have never once had an issue with her. The day that changes, which I doubt it will, but if it does, I will deal with it like a big girl and move on with my life.