'Dominate' implies a one time session in which one person takes control in a sexual encounter, though both roles are suppose to be active, this is the person leading in the thread I believe. I believe their complaint was valid enough, because pillow queens are a waste of space and far too common.
'Dominant' implies a personality or sexuality type. While the term is usually used in BDSM, it is also used in the real world to describe confident, outgoing and attention holding personalities.
I saw no implication that their character wasn't capable of taking the lead, only that they weren't a 'take the lead all the time' kind of character.
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'Dominate' implies a one time session in which one person takes control in a sexual encounter, though both roles are suppose to be active, this is the person leading in the thread I believe. I believe their complaint was valid enough, because pillow queens are a waste of space and far too common.
'Dominant' implies a personality or sexuality type. While the term is usually used in BDSM, it is also used in the real world to describe confident, outgoing and attention holding personalities.
I saw no implication that their character wasn't capable of taking the lead, only that they weren't a 'take the lead all the time' kind of character.