For clarity that 'too close' was for family ties, not years. I'll take a page from anon below and point out your lack of reading comprehension. I didn't read anyone mentioned age or years as what's problematic. Nice try at derailment.

Having been through some of the more hefty ship wars myself, my advice to you would be to take a step back now before the real shit starts flying. So far everyone but you has been generally polite and stuck to their point in this thread. Once the movie comes out, the rabid shippers are going to start in certain vocal parts of the internet. You're going to run yourself ragged if you get this way every time someone voices an opinion that doesn't match yours.