oh my god honestly, until this thread, I thought I was the ONLY ONE she had done that to, and it's just... so alienating sometimes. Especially given my bff's involvement. :/

Yeah, they're really close, and I'm hoping desperately it goes differently for them even though it makes things awkward for me because I don't want her to hurt. But at the same time, I kinda feel like I wish it would happen sooner rather than later? Like... the sooner it happens, the less it'll sting, hopefully.

/sigh