i don't have a problem when people i play psls with, or we've been playing for long enough to have some really solid CR going and they've got something to basis those suppositions on.

this person just tagged into an sws thread with canon cr, of a really minor character who hasn't got much canon, and started spouting shit about his childhood. granted, the character was there for their childhood, but i'm pretty sure i'm still the one who gets to decide that shit. 'remember when?' no, no i fucking don't.