scaly ([personal profile] ex_scaly476) wrote in [community profile] wankgate 2013-04-14 03:56 am (UTC)

hi. i don't think this is a good idea but... seeing as it's already been commented about, i'm going to make one and only one comment here.

i am the survivor of this incident. please forgive me for using a sock journal, because, as other anons have mentioned, my identity being revealed in regards to this situation is one of my greatest fears. being shown this thread was a very unpleasant surprise for me. my close friends all know that i never wanted this to get out- not to protect the person who did this to me, but because i deal with the repercussions of the incident every single day of my life, and the last thing i want is for that to leak into my online pretendy fun times roleplay life too. but i'm not angry at whoever mentioned it... i guess somewhere in my mind i knew this was bound to happen eventually. i'm not happy about it, but it's over and done with, and there's nothing i can do about it now except to try to preserve my privacy and anonymity.

the reason i am commenting with this sock journal is because i saw that some people were concerned about wanting evidence to bring to moderators to preserve their online safety. i can provide these things. please PM me for them or direct your moderators to this account. my only condition is that you first contact me without a sock and identify yourself thoroughly. i hope you understand why i need to ask for that. i am commenting here only because if it will help other survivors feel safe, then it's worth it, in my mind.

i know i can't tell anons what or what not to do, but please don't blow this drama up any further or at least try to keep it civil. it isn't roleplay-related beyond aiding other players to create comfort zones for themselves. all i want right now is to be able to disappear into peace and quiet again, and i would very much appreciate it if this whole thing smothers out fast.

that is all i have to say on this matter. i don't want to discuss details or answer questions because recalling it is very painful for me and anons already seem to have posted the basics. if you have any questions or concerns, please PM me as i will not be checking this thread further. it's already too much for me to deal with at once.

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