That's because I only use topping/bottoming if penetration is involved. When I use these terms, that's really fucking all I mean by them and not who's taking charge or whatever.
Fair enough. I was about to say that someone doesn't have to be "topping" to be the penetrator, but then again most people call that "topping from the bottom"...
how about you guys focus less on the terminology and dichotomy and more on the characters fucking
this is the source of the problem right here
words mean things but they are not the be all end all and rather than forcing things into categories and creating more categories when those don't fit, acknowledge that your categorization system sucks and there might
Errrrr. I think I'd have to discuss that somehow with my RP partner beforehand, though, and it'd be really ... odd to write on your meme threads "I'd like to penetrate your character/be penetrated by your character"
And why do you use the word "worry" anyway. The strap-on/cock of this character goes into an orifice of the other character. First one tops, second one bottoms. That's as straightforward as one can get, imo. Like the difference between, idk, a socket and a plug.
Worrying about whether that makes the character dom/sub -- or worse yet, seme/uke -- that is dumb.
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Re: da
(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 12:45 am (UTC)(link)Re: da
(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 01:03 am (UTC)(link)idk we just need better words.
Re: da
(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 01:52 am (UTC)(link)this is the source of the problem right here
words mean things but they are not the be all end all and rather than forcing things into categories and creating more categories when those don't fit, acknowledge that your categorization system sucks and there might
might
be more to fucking than who puts what where
Re: da
(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 12:23 pm (UTC)(link)But what if I still find penetration really hot.
dda
(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 07:27 pm (UTC)(link)Pretty sure that was their entire point.
Re: dda
(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)And why do you use the word "worry" anyway. The strap-on/cock of this character goes into an orifice of the other character. First one tops, second one bottoms. That's as straightforward as one can get, imo. Like the difference between, idk, a socket and a plug.
Worrying about whether that makes the character dom/sub -- or worse yet, seme/uke -- that is dumb.