I am about ready to shank this bitch making whiny ass plurks all the time and disabling responses and then later deleting them. Wah wah, cry more about how your life sucks and nobody loves you. When, honestly, your problems are not that bad and a good half of them at least seem like they'd be solved if you'd just download the Spine upgrade for your personality. Holy shit. Yes I AM going to mute your fucking plurks, and no I will not give a fuck if you feel like you have no friends and no one is supporting you because, guess what, sugartits? I ain't going outta my way to give you cozies and advice when you don't seem to want it. I got shit of my own to deal with, thanks.
man, I know I'm in the complete minority here but I hate spilling my guts on anyone other than my mom or dad. it reduces me to my bare bones, most vulnerable sides and that's personal and not for most of you RP-made acquaintances, sorry.
but the once or twice times it happened on plurk, and i started rambling and getting emotional and broke down without thinking about it like a dumb fuck? and people gave me helpful advice for it? I thanked them, and I still thank them for encouraging to keep my chin up and take care of business. they helped motivate me to do better because they supported me. they are good people and I'm glad to know such kind hearted and supportive individuals.
it fucking infuriates me when I try to return that favor for other whiners and they just spit it back in my face, and make every excuse under the sun why ~that wouldn't work~ or just don't even respond at all. how can you take your own humility for granted like that? I just don't fucking understand.
I don't mind spilling my guts, but I am also pretty explicit about whether I just want cute emotes or actual advice. And I thank people. And respond to them. And just generally try to engage in some sort of conversation! I don't make whiny plurks that only I can respond to but everyone can see because not only does that feel ludicrously self-indulgent and aggrandising -y'know, "Look at me! My problems are so important that you can't possibly have anything useful to say about them, but I'm going to shove them in your face anyways."- but it's also something I know upsets people.
Though I admit I have deleted a plurk or two that turned out to be way whinier than I had anticipated from the opener. I don't mind sharing, but sometimes I felt I was sharing way too much. (And I won't fault people for deleting the occasional whiny plurk because I get how you can start off whiny and then take a turn into "Whoa I feel worse having this out there than I do keeping it in" territory, but when it's all. the fucking. time...)
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Re: PLURK PET PEEVES
(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 09:49 am (UTC)(link)Re: PLURK PET PEEVES
(Anonymous) 2013-04-07 02:51 pm (UTC)(link)the resulting drama was a pain in the ass, but the freedom. the freedom!
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-08 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)but the once or twice times it happened on plurk, and i started rambling and getting emotional and broke down without thinking about it like a dumb fuck? and people gave me helpful advice for it? I thanked them, and I still thank them for encouraging to keep my chin up and take care of business. they helped motivate me to do better because they supported me. they are good people and I'm glad to know such kind hearted and supportive individuals.
it fucking infuriates me when I try to return that favor for other whiners and they just spit it back in my face, and make every excuse under the sun why ~that wouldn't work~ or just don't even respond at all. how can you take your own humility for granted like that? I just don't fucking understand.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-08 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)Though I admit I have deleted a plurk or two that turned out to be way whinier than I had anticipated from the opener. I don't mind sharing, but sometimes I felt I was sharing way too much. (And I won't fault people for deleting the occasional whiny plurk because I get how you can start off whiny and then take a turn into "Whoa I feel worse having this out there than I do keeping it in" territory, but when it's all. the fucking. time...)
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-10 02:05 pm (UTC)(link)Someone on my timeline added all the people who were kind enough to actually be supportive when they were having a rough time ...
... and now all they do is private plurk for attention and asspats and say "NO DON'T PITY ME" and "NOTHING WILL HELP".
bitch then why you dropping these shit notifs in my inbox.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-11 08:46 am (UTC)(link)Literally
Cut them from my plurklist. Because fuuuuuck that shit it hasn't happened to me yet and it better not.