i don't know, i've been on his plurk list for a while and play a close castmate and talk to him on plurk a lot and i just... don't see this? he seems to be pretty severely depressed, which is like, okay, i guess you can call him whiny, personally i don't care since whining doesn't actually hurt anyone else.
it just is becoming a little ridiculous that everyone is outright refusing to give even the vaguest deets and then when other people point out that they haven't seen him do anything saying that he's just really, really subtle. if he's so subtle, throw us a fucking bone and warn us about what to look out for, at least. if he wronged you or some friend or yours so terribly, why the fuck would you not want to give other people a chance to avoid that by giving them some idea what his m.o. is.
i mean seriously, not even a basic fucking one-phrase description like "he cheated on his girlfriend" or "his character was really mean to my character, waaaah" or "he wanked anonymously on someone who trusted him" or "he killed someone's mom and burned down their house and sexually assaulted their dog" or whatever the fuck.
i'm not saying that you're necessarily full of shit either, and i'm not whiteknighting. i'm saying that if you feel this person is shitty enough that he warrants being wanked on, fucking give us some idea of why, because some of us would actually like to know if this person we're considering becoming friends with is fucking ted bundy or just kind of a loser.
it's been mentioned before in this thread and the one linked: it's a matter of respecting the other person without dragging them around in the mud with him. it's not a light offense like "he was PA to me" or "he's whiny" it's something that could literally damage another person because of it
i mean...... i understand the frustration of not having deets for this kind of thing and its pointless to come to wankgate bc of it but he is legit an awful human being and it's not just something you can put out there because of the nature of it
the person who could get dragged through the mud in question has actually dealt unfavorably with people spreading deets before. they've asked multiple times for people not to give details.
they did get funk banned from a game they joined, if that's any indication for curious anons. it's that bad of an offense.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-13 12:12 pm (UTC)(link)did you not read that descriptor
not ayrt
(Anonymous) 2013-04-13 12:58 pm (UTC)(link)it just is becoming a little ridiculous that everyone is outright refusing to give even the vaguest deets and then when other people point out that they haven't seen him do anything saying that he's just really, really subtle. if he's so subtle, throw us a fucking bone and warn us about what to look out for, at least. if he wronged you or some friend or yours so terribly, why the fuck would you not want to give other people a chance to avoid that by giving them some idea what his m.o. is.
i mean seriously, not even a basic fucking one-phrase description like "he cheated on his girlfriend" or "his character was really mean to my character, waaaah" or "he wanked anonymously on someone who trusted him" or "he killed someone's mom and burned down their house and sexually assaulted their dog" or whatever the fuck.
i'm not saying that you're necessarily full of shit either, and i'm not whiteknighting. i'm saying that if you feel this person is shitty enough that he warrants being wanked on, fucking give us some idea of why, because some of us would actually like to know if this person we're considering becoming friends with is fucking ted bundy or just kind of a loser.
Re: not ayrt
(Anonymous) 2013-04-13 01:35 pm (UTC)(link)i mean...... i understand the frustration of not having deets for this kind of thing and its pointless to come to wankgate bc of it but he is legit an awful human being and it's not just something you can put out there because of the nature of it
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-13 06:11 pm (UTC)(link)they did get funk banned from a game they joined, if that's any indication for curious anons. it's that bad of an offense.