tl;dr: "I'm a rapist, but if I donate enough money to charity, that'll make everything better! Please forgive and love me again despite the fact that I've misled every single one of my friends about what I did and still roleplay rape threads."
In all seriousness like. This is the sort of thing that I would HOPE someone with that sort of fucked up actions in their past would do? Work to correct the mistake, donate to help victims, etc. So if he's actually serious about that then eh, I'll give him that at least.
It's not the fact that he's donating to charity that's a bad thing. It's the fact that he's holding it up as a shield and using it to say "I'm a great guy now!!!"
What does this comment even mean?? If you committed rape, you are a rapist. Where does 'was' come into play? Are you trying to say that if you are not presently committing rape right at that very moment, you're only a rapist in the past tense...? That makes no fucking sense.
See, that's not how I read it at all. I don't know, some of the wording was off and made me side-eye hard, but it read as genuine to me? I didn't think it came off as LOOK AT ME I'M A GREAT GUY as much as I fucked up, this is how I am trying to improve.
I'm as disgusted as anyone but I'm willing to give him the benefit of the doubt? At least if anything I think he's an idiot rather than actively seeking to harm people like Ken or Hellion.
that's how i read it too, anon. he seemed genuinely remorseful, like he wanted to not be such a shitty person and do right. i too am appalled by all of this, but i took this confession as a desire to do better and apologize. it doesn't erase the fucking terrible things he's done and the deceptions he's perpetuated, but i am also willing to give him the benefit of the doubt.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 04:50 am (UTC)(link)But everything else jesus wtf
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 04:59 am (UTC)(link)Once a rapist, forever a rapist.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 05:00 am (UTC)(link)Re: tw for rape
(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 04:55 am (UTC)(link)I'm as disgusted as anyone but I'm willing to give him the benefit of the doubt? At least if anything I think he's an idiot rather than actively seeking to harm people like Ken or Hellion.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 04:58 am (UTC)(link)and i mean it took him raping somebody to decide to donate to these charities
he has also remained somewhat close to his victim's social circle and extorted acquaintances for sympathy
no sorry this guy isn't just an idiot. he's a piece of shit.
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