Sorry dearie, but I'm a survivor myself and this sort of thing is exactly the fucking way I WISH my attacker would do or think. Do you have any fucking idea how much I'd have loved to just ONCE heard the words "I'm sorry"?
given the dawn player in question i wouldn't be surprised if she dragged him into it, and i don't recall him playing noncon anywhere recently like ken does, but it's still skeevy of him to say yes
'Dragged him into it'? Please be fucking joking. Nobody gets 'dragged' into a smut thread, least not a rapist into one based around rape. Funk is not a weak, innocent little babbu who was ~pressured~ into writing the rapist in a rape scenario. From the way he wrote it, he sounded pretty fucking eager and happy to be doing it.
funk isn't sorry he raped his ex. he's sorry he got found out. read that pastebin and you'll see for yourself how remorseful he really is when describing the incident. how he has that it was rape from the survivor's perspective and how he just doesn't happen to recall almost punching her yet remembers everything else afterward clearly. lets not forgetting making an ~anniversary~ out of the rape, like it's a thing to be fucking commemorated.
Yeah, well it wouldn't have done anything for me and quite frankly it disgusts me that people are falling all over this guy's dick to forgive him. He's only apologizing because he's been thoroughly outed. His word means jack fucking shit and I hope you choke on your condescension.
FUCKING THIS. He was happy to pretend it never happened and paint it as something else for the longest fucking time. The only reason he's sorry is because he's sorry he got found out.
former t9 mod here, i know he used the 'anniversary of serious rl stuff' crap as a way to garner sympathy from his co-mods in the past. he also got pissy with his ex's friends for holding grudges against him and complained about them on plurk a lot.
he's mad he got caught out and i'm sickened to think i ever trusted the guy.
did he apologize to the girl before this? because, let's be real, he doesn't owe any of us jack shit as far as apologies go. he owes her more apologies than he can give and i would hope he would have done that long before this
i think he's offered "apologies" to her, emphasis on the quotes. i've seen him get pissed off on plurk about apologizing and having people still hate him/not forgive him. of course, at the time i had no idea what he was "apologizing" for. who knew, right...
I have no idea and that's for her to say, if she cares to. But in addition and at the absolute least he did owe his friends list an apology for that "anniversary" bullshit.
As someone who was never directly involved but kind of knew about it, yes. I don't know if they were apologies with excuses or what, but as far as i'm aware he did.
or maybe he did apologize four years ago when it happened? is he supposed to say sorry every day and every time he adds new people go 'hi i raped a girl four years ago'
he could start by not making plurks about this secret incident and making himself sound like a martyr that needed condolences and sympathy for it when it turned out it was fucking rape??
i mean really if you know you did something horrible, be it rape or something else entirely, you don't talk about it as much as he did in the way that he did
"He's only apologizing because he's been thoroughly outed."
As someone who knew well beforehand, this is false. Don't let me get in the way of your self-righteousness, though. I'm sure you love speaking for all survivors.
Sure you are. You probably also have friends who were black when racism comes up.
nd this sort of thing is exactly the fucking way I WISH my attacker would do or think
Yes, we rape victims usually love for rapists to feel really sorry that they were outed and make themselves martyrs over it.
Do you have any fucking idea how much I'd have loved to just ONCE heard the words "I'm sorry"?
Personally, I'd wish for my rapist to say sorry to me before handing himself in, not say sorry to the public for sympathy, but never hand himself in. Because if you make no move to make things right somehow, your sorry is worthless.
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Okay, well shut the fuck up then.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 05:17 am (UTC)(link)'Dragged him into it'? Please be fucking joking. Nobody gets 'dragged' into a smut thread, least not a rapist into one based around rape. Funk is not a weak, innocent little babbu who was ~pressured~ into writing the rapist in a rape scenario. From the way he wrote it, he sounded pretty fucking eager and happy to be doing it.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 05:08 am (UTC)(link)everyone's going to feel differently about it tho.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 05:18 am (UTC)(link)he's mad he got caught out and i'm sickened to think i ever trusted the guy.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 05:22 am (UTC)(link)i mean really if you know you did something horrible, be it rape or something else entirely, you don't talk about it as much as he did in the way that he did
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 05:46 am (UTC)(link)As someone who knew well beforehand, this is false. Don't let me get in the way of your self-righteousness, though. I'm sure you love speaking for all survivors.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 07:49 am (UTC)(link)Nice start, already condescension.
but I'm a survivor myself
Sure you are. You probably also have friends who were black when racism comes up.
nd this sort of thing is exactly the fucking way I WISH my attacker would do or think
Yes, we rape victims usually love for rapists to feel really sorry that they were outed and make themselves martyrs over it.
Do you have any fucking idea how much I'd have loved to just ONCE heard the words "I'm sorry"?
Personally, I'd wish for my rapist to say sorry to me before handing himself in, not say sorry to the public for sympathy, but never hand himself in. Because if you make no move to make things right somehow, your sorry is worthless.
Okay, well shut the fuck up then.
Ok, rape apologist.