i'm legitimately worried about them making a huge scene about it and turning it into an attack against them.

i used to self harm, ive pretty much guaranteed myself that im never gonna wear short shorts or low cut shirts ever again but if i came out and said that id look like an attention grabbing dickhead trying to get pity points on the internet.

i honestly dont know how to approach this without inflaming things and getting passive aggressively forced out of the game