yeah to be honest my experience is literally the exact opposite of yours. i've never really seen what you're referring to. i see people demanding more tags and then just dropping threads/flaking/moving on to someone shinier. the people i know who have the maturity to say "hey guys i'm only able to take on x number of responses here" are the ones who are finishing threads and having meaningful cr rather than tons of shallow unfinished crap.

not saying you're wrong, just offering a different perspective.