Chances are pretty good that your first pick won't be the perfect character to pit against mine. If it is, well, dandy. But I don't expect it, so do come prepared if it's not!

Okay, I know we're all about being upfront about what we want but this is just really offputting to me. I guess it's the idea that the OP doesn't have to be at all flexible but the prospective partner does to fit OP's (very exacting) preferences.