there's over a thousand people in this hobby as of that survey that happened a year or so ago

Yes, and all thousand of them are available in every meme, or within every game. We always have access to the maximum amount of people to allow ourselves to be as picky and specific as we want. Nobody is ever left complaining about being starved for RP partners or is held against the coals and insulted for not tagging people that aren't fun to tag.

Do you even play?