they've done it to everyone i know in game anon so you're not alone. most players i've spoken to about it are just doing what they want and not asking permission now because it's easier to just not bother. at this point i think it's just one or two mods on the team who refuse to let anyone interfere with the setting because they want it to be a smut sandbox that they don't have to put too much effort into

it's a big game that has been running for a long time so maybe this sort of thing is inevitable but it's really frustrating that even the smallest things that won't have any impact on the plot or setting get shut down