getting married is a right. if government started charging insane fees to get married, and people still needed to be able to get married for health insurance and tax purposes, and put up gofundmes for that, i'd understand and even chip in for my friends.

a wedding is not getting married. a wedding is a very expensive party. getting married does not need a wedding. even people who aren't poor vastly overspend and end up in financial trouble over weddings. begging for the funds to throw a party is, tbqh, gross.