+1. sorry to wols but i've tried, and the ones motivated enough to join games all seem to be doing it so they can try to ship, and if possible multiship, with any npcs they can find. i've never been harassed in a way that made it worth going to the mods, but it was pretty fucking offputting to be asked point blank when my character would be "ready" to fuck a certain wol, as if it were inevitable. also very offputting to be told ooc that two wols were discussing my character's dick and one of them wanted my headcanon on that so their character could one-up the other one by being "right." i don't want to smut or ship with bad self-inserts and i never will, no matter how they try to bend their personalities to fit the character i'm playing.