nfn but i have met wols who are married to other wols (who are also being played in dwrp) and they're still nasty assholes. a lot of them also have open relationships so they can still chase their fave npcs, so they're both nasty *and* ship-pushers. you can be the rare decent wol, but the truth is people are still dealing with the bad ones who have pulled every trick in the book to get what they want.