literally the only thing that op said was that their character didn't want to fuck the other person's and, icly, made a joke about it

that's a thing that can happen if it's ic for a character to do so. sorry if the player is such a psycho that they take it personally if an icly crass and bitchy character is crass and bitchy to theirs lmfao. what's being an annoying asshole about writing a character as they're (presumably) meant to be played and then calling someone out for being obnoxious and overdefensive when they drag it into ooc interactions?

some characters do shit like that. if it bothers you so bad then consider trying a different hobby