I'm not saying you have a personal stake in this but the first comment telling the anon to log off seems so obviously like they're getting defensive.

It's weak wank but I also think that excusing it as just being socially awkward is weak too.

It's wanky behavior but I concede it would be hard to back up with concrete deets without outing yourself too. I guess at that point you give up and hope she stays out of your space.