which really weren't all that offensive to begin with, just dumb, but you had people screeching OMG WTF HOLY SHIT YOU'RE SO INSANE

This. I admittedly rolled my eyes a little at the comment but acting like this person was RP Hitler for suggesting that maybe a player should've given the mods a heads up is kind of ridiculous. I don't think it would've blown up like it did if the tone wasn't disproportionately incendiary.