oh it's fine to be bothered by that comment, and i don't think anyone would disagree if that was its own separate subthread commenting on how far anons can go? but it keeps coming up (here and rpa) in the context of judging bee's craziness and it's like... dude, who cares about the finger when you have the rest of their comment. it looks bad (in general, not implying you are trying to do that on purpose) when people are sideeyeing a person and someone comes and says "ah but on THIS ONE thing they're fine!"