(Anonymous) 2022-10-25 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
For me, it was his blatant anon shit-stirring. I remember him doing it all the way back in the Mayfield days. He's always done that along with the other things you mentioned. He is literally a completely static human being. He never learns, grows, or changes.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2022-10-27 04:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm seeing this in various places so I gotta ask, is the mis-gendering an intentional insult, or are you suspicious of their gender identity?

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2022-10-27 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)
yawn

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2022-10-28 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
that's a serious question, I'm wondering if there's gender drama? or am I reading too much into it? I can't exactly read the room here

Re: ayrt

(Anonymous) 2022-10-28 10:48 am (UTC)(link)
when gonsai came out as nb and changed their handle, they frequently abused the concept of deadnaming to get threads like this one frozen and deleted. so yes, that's sus to some, and it's still sus for anyone to start wank over it.

i imagine their tendency to mansplain literally everything and otherwise act like an entitled manbaby doesn't help

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2022-10-28 01:36 pm (UTC)(link)
ah, got it. I thought it might be something like that. thanks for explaining

(Anonymous) 2022-11-03 04:14 am (UTC)(link)
Something a lot of people forget is that coming out doesn't mean you automatically unlearn gendered behaviors and attitudes you were raised with.

yes gsai is NB, and I will always respect their pronouns, it’s basic decency. But they are absolutely guilty of displaying toxic masculinity in a variety of ways and a typically male-presented brand of entitlement. being nb does not mean they are excused for such behavior, sorry gsai.

(Anonymous) 2022-12-14 10:11 am (UTC)(link)
“ToXiC mAsCuLiNiTy” as if afab people didn’t pull the same shit, just look at tora.