yeah, there was a degree of 'it's your fault if you're not taking a hundred precautionary and/or retaliatory steps' attitude from some anons in that thread, probably because they'd pre-decided that anon was to blame, no matter what.

most of us just drop the threads we're not randomly feeling, let alone the ones that pointedly go against our prefs, come on. let's not pretend we all go out of our way to have a stern talking to with players, flag to mods and spread the good word when someone hasn't done more than minorly inconvenience us with a tag notif we can delete on a forgettable meme.