can't speak for other anons, but what gets my goat is the "we're telling you this is the expectation, but actually we have a secret expectation that is higher and meeting the expectation we told you isn't good enough" aspect.

in pretty much any other scenario, we'd recognize that telling someone one goal then secretly judging them for not reaching a higher goal you never communicated would be incredibly shitty behavior, but drop the word "squatting" and suddenly anons are all for it here.