Back when I was rping with PSL anons and meme randos only? I'd complain to my rp friends when I got some really crazy tag from people who totally ignored my refs or (true story) sent me a sentence-by-sentence breakdown of why my tag response seemed insufficiently enthusiastic.

Now that I'm in a game? ...Almost not at all, actually. Everyone I play with is very nice and even people who rub me a little the wrong way I can tell it's just a matter of difference in preferences or communication, not actual toxicity.