very rarely and only with trusted friends who've vented to me in private about the same person. if rp starts becoming a source of stress, i drop and move on to other hobbies for a while. if i have a problem with someone breaking the rules or violating personal boundaries i set in a game, i screencap that shit and report it directly to mod teams if a resolution or compromise can't be worked out civilly. if the mods won't do anything, i drop the game. if it's something that happens outside a game, i opt out of playing with them and if that kicks off rp drama, i screencap and block.