Alisa was banned from one game for player harassment. In previous games she was notorious for this and I know several players who brought these issues to the mods and were told to suck it up, more or less. She can be perfectly normal but once she’s shipping with someone, her behavior escalates. Timing people’s tags, policing who they tag, getting angry at anyone “stepping in” on her ships, throwing people who politely decline a ship under the grudge tractor, insane ex-GF blowing up of discord…

It’s difficult to share caps without throwing people who didn’t deserve the harassment under the bus. Which is precisely why she’s flown under the radar for so long.

She’s no firebenderjess. You could even tag her without shipping and be okay … but she’d drop you anyway because she only cares about ships. Ultimately not worth the headache to engage.

As for Jade, Alisa’s current shiny. That’s all I know.