yea, all alisa's bad behavior is from one-on-one stuff, so it's difficult to share deets without immediately outing yourself. it's also almost all ship-related, so most players will probably have the impression that she's totally harmless, just slow and flaky.

a big factor too is because she gives off such otherwise friendly and enthusiastic energy, she has a lot of friends who are very ride-or-die with her. so once she's turned on someone, she expects all her friends to follow suit and ice that person out.

which is pretty normal toxic friend group behavior, but it does complicate matters and is probably why people haven't brought her up before, since they can't provide proof without outing themselves.