This is pretty much what I expect and why I decided whinging on wg would be more productive than trying to bring it up. I still enjoy writing with them and I think they play their characters well, and I know I'm the one with the issue so I'm just dealing with it until I get the energy back. I genuinely love writing dominant characters and exploring their headspaces, but it just gets samey and disheartening when the only suggestions the other person makes are all the options that don't involve different dynamics. I also recognize it's my responsibility to voice that and I'm making assumptions about the other party's potential response, perhaps unfairly, but I'm at a point where I prefer to avoid conflict across the board because it's not worth the emotional investment otherwise. We're just mashing barbies on the internet, I can go touch grass if I'm having that many feelings over what barbie takes it up the ass.

I know it's not that deep, but it still gets exhausting.