this was what i was going to say. i don't top level very often because i like to keep myself not overburdened, but when i do, the majority of my tag ins are from all the people i tagged out to over the rest of the memes (i also don't play in tfln). other text memes work better for me. and when i see a character i want to play, i reach out. i've never had an empty inbox since i've done this.