if you can't tag for a while, that's fine, i don't care, i don't need to know the intimate details as to why. you can deal with whatever's going on and take as long as you need.

it gets really awkward when people start dumping personal details that were never asked for nor was it ever implied that they were needed. "hey, i've got some family stuff going on right now so tags might be slow" is fine! i don't need daily updates on your family member's condition unless we're actually friends beyond just dwrp.