as a former mod (who went here then too), modding is something you have to enjoy for your own sake tbh. no mod whose outlook on it is "thankless job" is going to last more than a few months. if your outlook is more like "this is our sandbox that we were going to play in anyway, but we have this number of spots open for other people" you can come here and be unaffected

the only exception imo would be something like a gonsai persistent concern trolling situation, but that's one of the good things about attitudes changing in recent years regarding player entitlement