nah that's still dumb. if bob and steve are best friends in canon, a bob player has every right to expect that if a steve apps, they're going to be able to play the friendship as it's depicted in canon. a bob apping in and then ignoring steve is being ooc and most games don't allow that.

if you want to just straight up ignore entire aspects of canon because you don't want to play it then this is not a character you should be playing in a game. keep them to memes and psls where you can choose to keep or ignore whatever parts of canon you want.