child rearing is different for everyone. some have it pretty easy for various reasons - their partner earns enough to let them stay home comfortably, the kid is easy. and then you have single moms who have kids with a disability or neurodivergent or something that requires a lot more time and mental effort. throw questionable finances into the mix and it's even harder.
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parenting isn't a one size fits all.