fwiw three if my best friends I've made via dw/ljrp have been moms. one doesn't rp anymore but that wasn't just bc of her kid and she still has plenty of fun hobbies (we're still Facebook friends and she just posted some awesome cosplay she's working on with her kid). the other two still do, one with a very young child and one with a much older one, and regardless of if they gotta take a break for a while to focus on that I'm always happy to talk to them and hear about their life and tag when they have the time.

good luck with your family, I'm sure most of your rp friends will be reasonable about it, wankgate isn't actually a barometer of what most people think.