more like pet schadenfreude, but people who interact with toxic highlanders like they're totally normal because they're getting smut threads and then get surprised and upset when the toxic highlanders act toxic at them

with soulbonding types, you're never going to be worth as much as their character's imaginary feelings. hot vague tip: assume there's shit being talked about you, cut your losses, and rp with normal people who don't take real offense to ic actions