da here, it was technically optional but it wasn't handled well. the mods did warn heavily for a surprise consequence that would involve body horror if characters chose to have sex with the game's main NPC. the problem was that there was no mention of pregnancy or eggs in that CW. a good handful of players have pregnancy on their hard no list

a lot of people complained once the consequences were revealed and the mods apologized. the mods were responsive to crit afaik

what i did think was strange is that there's a noncon/dubcon heavy event coming up that some players are concerned about, and in the mod plurk, they said: "We're always willing to explicitly spoil things privately for anyone who reaches out with concerns that a CW treads close to a personal trigger. So if something feels vague to you, and you're not sure how to respond, please just hit us up on mod contact or in DM and we'll talk it through with you. There's no reason to sit there in uncertainty and stress about it when you can just ask for more information because it's adjacent to something that upsets you!"

a great policy but that has not "always" been the case as players did publicly ask for more information on the pregnancy adjacent themes as that was unfolding and they were turned away to avoid spoilers