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Ryan Gosling ([personal profile] ryanongosling) wrote in [community profile] wankgate2024-09-16 03:31 am

Re: https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/96532.html?thread=279618580#cmt279618580

(Anonymous) 2024-09-21 10:33 pm (UTC)(link)
da and yes, this is exactly why i play one of my canon control freaks as a switch. sometimes he wants to call the shots but sometimes he wants to just lie back and relax and let his partner blow his back out.

Re: https://expiationnet.dreamwidth.org/62133.html?thread=9245621#cmt9245621

(Anonymous) 2024-09-21 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
i’m asian and i have both a native name and a western name. my parents are the same. the western names are our legal names but we still actively use the asian names when we speak the language and it’s still a big deal. my parents have a family friend who did not and goes by her asian names but her husband and their children do - i actually don’t know her children’s western names because we never meet outside of their get together and i just always called them by their asian names because that’s what their parents called them.

i also had a extended family member come for college and when she initially came over, she picked “georgia” as a western but then decided after some time that she wanted to go by “iris” instead.

it’s really not that weird.

+1

(Anonymous) 2024-09-21 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
same. Asian people with western names and/or even last names (by marriage, by adoption, by choice, lots of reasons for it) is such a common thing that I'm surprised anyone raises a brow to see it.

hell, my family almost always goes with my western name when referring to me these days, including the folks who live in asia and have never been to another country. my og asian name only gets busted out for legal documentation really

Re: KINKS YOU WOULDN'T ADMIT TO HAVING UN-ANON

(Anonymous) 2024-09-21 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
m/f bdsm with a submissive f (playing the f, specifically) with incest or some really intense power dynamics going on, breeding, cumplay, really rough sex, cockwarming, sex toys, exhibitionism, stuff like that.

too ashamed to admit this off anon (won't even post on the rpa ads for it).

Re: https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/96532.html?thread=279618580#cmt279618580

(Anonymous) 2024-09-21 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
youuu get it

this also delves into how being dominant isn't exclusive to being a top, as with how being submissive isn't exclusive to being a bottom. and yet, here we are.

Re: MEME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-09-21 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
the only other interpretation is that they meant their limited brainpower is being used up theatre of the mind rewatching that scene, and they can't write because they poorly phrased it as 'other' threads

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2024-09-21 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
oh, yeah, this stuff is why I'll check a basic info post! but not a whole wiki, because that's unnecessary stuff my character wouldn't know.

(Anonymous) 2024-09-21 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
eh, this is oversimplifying. the only elements in common with the fic are the original stuff she came up with. there's no actual homage to homestuck except the sunglasses, and people saying it's just homestuck characters are reaching real hard. i was a homestuck fan and i like tlt a lot but it's not just serial numbers filed off homestuck, that's a significant reduction.

but former homestuck RPers who are playing tlt as homestuck characters because they actually want to just play homestuck will tell you this is the case. imho this is the problem with half the tlt cast on this site, they aren't playing tlt at all. they're trying to play more respectable homestuck. you can tell who is influenced by homestuck/tsg and who isn't. sadly the good/not just playing tsg ones are all flaky thread droppers so it isn't likely you'll get good cr with the decent ones.

Re: https://expiationnet.dreamwidth.org/62133.html?thread=9245621#cmt9245621

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
Same here. I have coworkers in Japan (and my own Asian family too) who uses fairly western names too, and depending on how 'pure' their bloodline is, they can easily be mistaken for another ethnicity. I say 'pure' because tbh most people have mixed ancestry of some sort despite the generations they know all living in the same country, and it's just a matter of whether genetics decides to randomly toss you a curveball out of nowhere and be the one who looks different.

Re: https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/96532.html?thread=279618580#cmt279618580

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
Ooooh I played with someone like that who had to go through mental gymnastics to justify why her character is totally a top because of reasons a, b, c, and when people don't agree she gets very prickly about it. She also equates topping with dominance and big dicks, puts bottom stereotypes on my character, even if canon actually disproves quite a bit of what she said.

I don't know why she didn't just stick to saying she just wants him to top. It was very weird talking to her, and I'm kinda glad we don't anymore.

Re: https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/96532.html?thread=279618580#cmt279618580

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
i can handle the pillow queens since i can just finish the thread quickly or drop the thread. its the extreme tsunderes that are the worst. i dont cater to noncon fetishs or push a thread when players can’t imagine writing even an ounce of sexual receptivity.

people who want to write smut have to be able to write their character wanting it.

Re: https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/96532.html?thread=279618580#cmt279618580

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
this is what made me come to hate bakugo from mha

Re: https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/96532.html?thread=279618580#cmt279618580

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
its probably the internalized sex-shame and half of dwrp being virgins that leads to it.

Re: https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/96532.html?thread=279618580#cmt279618580

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
i would be okay with bottom bitch bakugou if he was written half-competently. i've seen doujins that make it make sense and not cringe, but those are also few and far in between.

i can't rec any, i left this fandom ages ago and can't be assed to hunt them down since i don't even ship my ship for it anymore.

Re: https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/96532.html?thread=279618580#cmt279618580

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 01:44 am (UTC)(link)
i have yet to see him written competently in rp

Re: https://expiationnet.dreamwidth.org/62133.html?thread=9245621#cmt9245621

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
what is your opinion on non traditionally feminine presenting trans women

just curious

Re: https://expiationnet.dreamwidth.org/62133.html?thread=9245621#cmt9245621

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 03:22 am (UTC)(link)
blonde japanese charactere are really common in this media, anon.

do you even watch anime or are you just weighing in because you're bored?

Re: https://expiationnet.dreamwidth.org/62133.html?thread=9245621#cmt9245621

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
then i'm sure you're aware of all the stigma others of your ethnicity face if they don't fit specific appearance criteria and i question why you felt the need to say that at all

Re: https://expiationnet.dreamwidth.org/62133.html?thread=9245621#cmt9245621

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 03:51 am (UTC)(link)
are you seriously telling people how to feel about their own ethnicity jfc

Re: GAME PET PEEVES

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 04:00 am (UTC)(link)
the obviously evil big bad of your jamjar is bad, and you, the other characters, are pathetic and useless for not somehow escaping the jamjar

not like my character who is very cool and smart and way better than yours because i frequently post to the in-game network about this subject and am also the main character of the game

Re: https://rpanons.dreamwidth.org/96532.html?thread=279618580#cmt279618580

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 04:26 am (UTC)(link)
i have but not in games or memes just psls and the player said they don't like the bitchy bottom bakugo portrayal anyway so that might have something to do with it

Re: The Top

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 05:09 am (UTC)(link)
By thE looks of the tdm its DOA.

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 06:47 am (UTC)(link)
damn what is up with all the oc hate. those ppl just trying to live their best life

can't we hate on a canon character this time

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 06:55 am (UTC)(link)
more bakugo hate

Re: KINKS YOU WOULDN'T ADMIT TO HAVING UN-ANON

(Anonymous) 2024-09-22 07:51 am (UTC)(link)
i remember hearing from someone who made these videos (the actual shock video meme cake fart woman whose video was circulating a lot way back when, iirc) that it wasnt real cake. i dont remember what exactly she said she used but it was stuff that wouldnt give her an infection after rubbing on her pussy lmao. something about sugar not being great for down there. i think it was mashed potato or something