honestly as someone who plays mostly female characters i just avoid other female characters because i’ve had so many players get weird and treat me like a threat. one even tried to convince her friends in the game not to play with me because she was jealous i was good friends with a player whose character she obviously wanted to ship with and was mad that our characters had CR even though we weren’t playing from the same canon.

then when i plunk a dude on a meme or tdm they’re suddenly suddenly start cozying up to me and acting close like they hadn’t been ignoring me until now.