Okay, genuine question: Did you reach out to the mod in private to ask these things beforehand or did you just go straight to anon comms so you can go on about how irresponsible the mod is for being affected by real life and not being on top of things during a time they had struggles?

I don't know the mod, and I understand the frustration of delay and lack of communication, but I feel this was something that could have been asked in private in case things happened. Doubling down on how wrong someone is for something that is essentially not a big deal (delayed tdm) instead of just reminding them about it won't encourage anyone to want to mod even more.