and yet, she isn't. because she gets id'd when she's out all the time, she has to wear kid's clothes, and if she kisses an adult she's dating in public, she can cause people to make calls for child abuse. i'm not talking about 'looking young'. i'm talking about conditions that make a grown adult look like a prepubescent child. it can be hard for someone new to look at what seems to be a child and treat them like an adult, just like it can be hard for someone that looks like a child to not think that any adult showing her sexual attention is doing so for the 'right' reasons. go look up shauna rae. hers is the more well known one, but she's not the only one.

she has a reality show and is currently dating someone and there's a lot of buzz around trying to normalize it even though she looks so young and it's going to have bad optics in public. that's a legitimate concern. and she's not the only one. there's also hasbulla, another relatively famous type, who has a rare form of dwarfism that makes him look like a perpetual toddler.

they're in their 20s, and the idea of healthy dating for them is going to be something that's never really going to be a thing, because the public eye is going to make a stink about it.