wankgate | The Fifty-Third

tbh i'm glad it's finally been said. he's had it coming big time, and i hope it all comes crashing down on him now. i feel really bad for the victim if she never wanted this to get out, but letting funk just get away with martyring himself and telling people it was just a 'thoughtless mistake' is practically rewarding him for what he did. he doesn't deserve to feel comfortable and secure in any way whatsoever.

then you're an ass. what she wanted matters most.

Apart from the cast thing, yeah, this is the worst. Still keeping him on Plurk though. I'm sure you'll appreciate this in the future, wg.

we will definitely appreciate it. do us a solid and keep us updated.

Skimming through this made me sick to my stomach knowing that he's actually committed rape. That is so fucked up.

considering the pastebin of his c&c flipout and his t9 history, i wouldn't be surprised if a good chunk of his plurklist only keep him to keep an eye on him.

a hero to us all

Don't care if you think that I am the person you are bitching about all the time. I own up to my mistakes, when I have gone up against someone, and I own up to what I say or do. I would never do what you are doing to people. You are becoming a very disturbed/ing, creepy bully at this point. Posting death threats to them, telling people that they have AIDS, herpes and other fucked up ailments where they can see it, and making fun of them as a person and not just a role-player. Finally people are doing something about all the un-posted to posts in all these meme's. They tag guys, girls and even anime characters. They are tagging out. So fucking what if they are tagging to gen, fluff, and smut meme's? They are meme's and people don't usually ever tag back.

They are enjoying themselves. Get over your grudge boner. The person you are wanking on has an HMD if you really have an issue. They have posted out to meme wide HMD's as well. Nothing. You haven't used ANY of them. My guess? You fucked them over and they put you in your place and now you are just out to get them. If not? Then you just have some sick, weird fascination with them, or with getting people YOU don't like out of your hobby. You act like you are a crusader to get them gone from RPing in your little duck pond. People like you have already bullied a couple of people off of this site. Making fun of their profiles, making fun of them, following them around place to place, getting up in arms because they probably tagged one of the 100 Jeremy Renner, Teen Wolf, Marvel, SPN muses that are out there. Guess what? That is ALL that is out there!

So what if they are bored one day, are home and reading a meme page? Deciding to post out to people, get feelers, try to connect to someone? They aren't in any games, this is their RP. Your witch-hunt at this point and smear campaign is fucked up. And your need to get all of your buddies to go out to help you with this witch-hunt is both creepy and sad.

Get over yourself. You are just one more medium sort of RP hobbyist--just like the persons you are going after. You are not so special and elite that you need to force fuck everyone you don't like out of the hobby because they are going out and doing the thing you won't do. Going out to try to play, connect with other RP writer's.

People have bullied me all my life. Done some fucked up shit. So acknowledging, finding funny the fact that someone is going around this person to tell them to off themselves is really sick. Telling someone that they have AIDS and other sicknesses is also very disturbing. Now I've been trying to sit back and let this blow over. I've tried to talk to you/whomever to get some kind of discussion going which hasn't worked. Making sure there is a way to be contacted/critiqued hasn't worked. Maybe this will? I really doubt it though.

if you're angry because it might potentially out the person he raped then i don't think there's too much to worry, most people he plays with in games probably don't know who this is. like me for instance, no idea who this is and, honestly, have no desire to find out. i also think she shouldn't be outed either, but i think people are classy enough not to say anything on that front.

if you're angry because a confirmed rapist was outed then you should rethink your priorities. especially when he goes on about this instance (he's mentioned more than just recently on the "anniversary") like people should console him when he never says what it was about. i feel bad if anyone gave him sympathy then finds out this is what it was about.

it isn't anyones decision except the survivor's how this comes out. anyone who thinks they should take matters into their own hands in a sensitive matter like this is a fucking asshat. and the way you're talking is also incredibly disrespectful as well.

i agree but honestly some of the "vague" comments were a fucking joke

what a shitty mess of a thread

im not angry a confirmed rapist came out. im angry that people think they are in the right to give such implicit details. unless the survivor themselves said this was ok then no one has the right to decide how this is revealed.

I want to like Samantha Grey, I really do, but I find her tags difficult to understand and it interferes with my ability to enjoy our threads.

on the one hand, i'm not going to shed any tears over a rapist being outed. on the other hand, even if the victim herself isn't outed, having details about such a terrible and personal experience out in public can still be an intensely uncomfortable experience for her. for that reason, i'm torn about the information being out there, and i don't blame friends who wanted to keep details vague for her sake.

Posting death threats to them, telling people that they have AIDS, herpes and other fucked up ailments where they can see it, and making fun of them as a person and not just a role-player.

what

they might as well have typed "HE'S A RAPIST" in bold, blinking, comic sans font. that is precisely how subtle they were.

okay then disregard the last thing, i just couldn't tell which you were angry about lmao

but i can understand your anger about it, but it seems vague enough it should appease the people that wanted to know what this was about and not ask for anymore details than was given. though i would understand if she found out this was revealed she could be upset, too.

I actually didn't realize it was edgy to think people can do whatever the hell they want with their free time but okay.

I go a week without doing any tags and without a hiatus all the time. I've always made more than AC and never gotten an activity complaint. What's the big deal?

So wait, he harassed/stalked the person he assaulted? I read this as it being a different thing.

The actress in question is pretty awesome, actually, and perfect for playing Sharon if her previous work is anything to go by. She's also older looking than the other actresses considered for the role, and is only 3 years younger than Hemsworth (same age as Kat Dennings, in fact). All that aside, though, you've got me curious - why don't you like her?

Won't bother asking why you don't like Sharon since I asked a similar question upthread and got no answer, but not sure why you're bringing "being a woman" into the topic at all. This isn't tumblr, no one's going to accuse you of "omg internalized misogyny!!!" or something. As for the ship, ymmv and honestly I don't curr. Same with the "cockhopping".

It looks like a misunderstanding. See the thread above.

You are completely and totally right. It was a pretty knee jerk reaction. I do get that, but I still figured asking was a good idea to ask.

Lots of feelings going on due to that, but I am really quite serious about doing the whole detective work on it when I find something. If no one has deets that I will drop it and I apologize. It is pretty important for me to find out who it is though. Especially if I am in the same circles with them. I am kind of sick, and really freaked out that there is a person out there who thinks telling people to kill themselves among other bullying tactics is socially acceptable.

Having RP problems and going on about those issues is cool and acceptable. Trying to push someone who already has/had issues like that all their life among other things is kind of sick. Whether you know about them or not. You shouldn't have to know about them to think that saying such things is actually acceptable practice.

This seemed like a relevant thing to link in case people missed it.

tw for rape and general badness: http://wankgate.dreamwidth.org/14238.html?thread=41431966#cmt41431966

and it's not like they're walking around having their character assume they know everyone or trying to insert their character into other canons for no reason. it's hard enough getting cr with a female muse, so, they're just trying to get something going for their character. why is that a bad thing? are you just made because someone is actually being proactive while rping?

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