if you're angry because it might potentially out the person he raped then i don't think there's too much to worry, most people he plays with in games probably don't know who this is. like me for instance, no idea who this is and, honestly, have no desire to find out. i also think she shouldn't be outed either, but i think people are classy enough not to say anything on that front.
if you're angry because a confirmed rapist was outed then you should rethink your priorities. especially when he goes on about this instance (he's mentioned more than just recently on the "anniversary") like people should console him when he never says what it was about. i feel bad if anyone gave him sympathy then finds out this is what it was about.
im not angry a confirmed rapist came out. im angry that people think they are in the right to give such implicit details. unless the survivor themselves said this was ok then no one has the right to decide how this is revealed.
okay then disregard the last thing, i just couldn't tell which you were angry about lmao
but i can understand your anger about it, but it seems vague enough it should appease the people that wanted to know what this was about and not ask for anymore details than was given. though i would understand if she found out this was revealed she could be upset, too.
on the one hand, i'm not going to shed any tears over a rapist being outed. on the other hand, even if the victim herself isn't outed, having details about such a terrible and personal experience out in public can still be an intensely uncomfortable experience for her. for that reason, i'm torn about the information being out there, and i don't blame friends who wanted to keep details vague for her sake.
hi. i don't think this is a good idea but... seeing as it's already been commented about, i'm going to make one and only one comment here.
i am the survivor of this incident. please forgive me for using a sock journal, because, as other anons have mentioned, my identity being revealed in regards to this situation is one of my greatest fears. being shown this thread was a very unpleasant surprise for me. my close friends all know that i never wanted this to get out- not to protect the person who did this to me, but because i deal with the repercussions of the incident every single day of my life, and the last thing i want is for that to leak into my online pretendy fun times roleplay life too. but i'm not angry at whoever mentioned it... i guess somewhere in my mind i knew this was bound to happen eventually. i'm not happy about it, but it's over and done with, and there's nothing i can do about it now except to try to preserve my privacy and anonymity.
the reason i am commenting with this sock journal is because i saw that some people were concerned about wanting evidence to bring to moderators to preserve their online safety. i can provide these things. please PM me for them or direct your moderators to this account. my only condition is that you first contact me without a sock and identify yourself thoroughly. i hope you understand why i need to ask for that. i am commenting here only because if it will help other survivors feel safe, then it's worth it, in my mind.
i know i can't tell anons what or what not to do, but please don't blow this drama up any further or at least try to keep it civil. it isn't roleplay-related beyond aiding other players to create comfort zones for themselves. all i want right now is to be able to disappear into peace and quiet again, and i would very much appreciate it if this whole thing smothers out fast.
that is all i have to say on this matter. i don't want to discuss details or answer questions because recalling it is very painful for me and anons already seem to have posted the basics. if you have any questions or concerns, please PM me as i will not be checking this thread further. it's already too much for me to deal with at once.
You are a piece of shit. Seriously. They're completely anonymous. It's been said repeatedly that they never wanted this whole thing to get out. You are a terrible person for thinking that this comment was even remotely appropriate or okay. Go back to asspatting your rapist friend.
yes, because using a sock account to hide her identity is exactly what an attention whore would do. you saw right through her. ten points to gryffindor for your ingenious deductive reasoning.
i just want to apologize for everything that happened on wg, and i hope that things quiet down for your sake. if actions are taken against him, i hope that it's done in a way that respects your privacy.
Don't worry about using a sock, it's reasonable for you to stay anon for this. I hope you feel better and thank you very much for volunteering to help others stay safe even though you don't have to.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 03:15 am (UTC)(link)if you're angry because a confirmed rapist was outed then you should rethink your priorities. especially when he goes on about this instance (he's mentioned more than just recently on the "anniversary") like people should console him when he never says what it was about. i feel bad if anyone gave him sympathy then finds out this is what it was about.
ayrt
(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 03:18 am (UTC)(link)Re: ayrt
(Anonymous) 2013-04-14 03:23 am (UTC)(link)but i can understand your anger about it, but it seems vague enough it should appease the people that wanted to know what this was about and not ask for anymore details than was given. though i would understand if she found out this was revealed she could be upset, too.
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i am the survivor of this incident. please forgive me for using a sock journal, because, as other anons have mentioned, my identity being revealed in regards to this situation is one of my greatest fears. being shown this thread was a very unpleasant surprise for me. my close friends all know that i never wanted this to get out- not to protect the person who did this to me, but because i deal with the repercussions of the incident every single day of my life, and the last thing i want is for that to leak into my online pretendy fun times roleplay life too. but i'm not angry at whoever mentioned it... i guess somewhere in my mind i knew this was bound to happen eventually. i'm not happy about it, but it's over and done with, and there's nothing i can do about it now except to try to preserve my privacy and anonymity.
the reason i am commenting with this sock journal is because i saw that some people were concerned about wanting evidence to bring to moderators to preserve their online safety. i can provide these things. please PM me for them or direct your moderators to this account. my only condition is that you first contact me without a sock and identify yourself thoroughly. i hope you understand why i need to ask for that. i am commenting here only because if it will help other survivors feel safe, then it's worth it, in my mind.
i know i can't tell anons what or what not to do, but please don't blow this drama up any further or at least try to keep it civil. it isn't roleplay-related beyond aiding other players to create comfort zones for themselves. all i want right now is to be able to disappear into peace and quiet again, and i would very much appreciate it if this whole thing smothers out fast.
that is all i have to say on this matter. i don't want to discuss details or answer questions because recalling it is very painful for me and anons already seem to have posted the basics. if you have any questions or concerns, please PM me as i will not be checking this thread further. it's already too much for me to deal with at once.
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