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this arc has been boring as fuck, but that's half because everyone complained about how fast the game moved/how all the war and battle shit didn't suit their character types (which was fucking stupid, since it's a game based on war) and half because the old mod team completely flaked on their shit and left Tosshi carrying everything.
I don't know about the new mod team because they're still new but they better make the next arc interesting or I'm out of here.
I don't know about the new mod team because they're still new but they better make the next arc interesting or I'm out of here.
former t9 mod here, i know he used the 'anniversary of serious rl stuff' crap as a way to garner sympathy from his co-mods in the past. he also got pissy with his ex's friends for holding grudges against him and complained about them on plurk a lot.
he's mad he got caught out and i'm sickened to think i ever trusted the guy.
he's mad he got caught out and i'm sickened to think i ever trusted the guy.
surprise. you've probably interacted with rapists in your daily life who've done this and not even realized it's considered rape to even apologize and tell you they did it in the first place.
Yeah I really don't care and it ain't my business. I'm just not about to fall on the cock because of a plurk that's 50% excuses and blame-shifting.
he could start by not making plurks about this secret incident and making himself sound like a martyr that needed condolences and sympathy for it when it turned out it was fucking rape??
i mean really if you know you did something horrible, be it rape or something else entirely, you don't talk about it as much as he did in the way that he did
i mean really if you know you did something horrible, be it rape or something else entirely, you don't talk about it as much as he did in the way that he did
he's supposed to have not fucking raped her in the first place.
once you've gone and committed the rape, there isn't any "right" way to handle it afterwards. there is no correct way to deal with the fact that you've fucking raped a person. no matter what you do, it's going to be shitty and people are going to hate you for it, because you did a shitty hateful thing and you are a shitty hateful person. no amount of ~soul searching~ and ~inner growth~ will remove those consequences.
if you murder someone and get sentenced to life in prison, they don't let you out of jail after ten years because you've ~become a better man~
in a perfect world funk would be in prison right now. he isn't, and he's not going to be, because the world sucks. but that doesn't mean that he gets out of punishment. his punishment, rather than living in a cell, is having us all hate his piece of shit rapist guts no matter what he does. he can't escape us hating his shitty rapist guts by saying he's very sorry any more than a murderer can escape jail by saying he's very sorry
if this sounds unfair, there is an easy way to avoid it
don't fucking rape people
once you've gone and committed the rape, there isn't any "right" way to handle it afterwards. there is no correct way to deal with the fact that you've fucking raped a person. no matter what you do, it's going to be shitty and people are going to hate you for it, because you did a shitty hateful thing and you are a shitty hateful person. no amount of ~soul searching~ and ~inner growth~ will remove those consequences.
if you murder someone and get sentenced to life in prison, they don't let you out of jail after ten years because you've ~become a better man~
in a perfect world funk would be in prison right now. he isn't, and he's not going to be, because the world sucks. but that doesn't mean that he gets out of punishment. his punishment, rather than living in a cell, is having us all hate his piece of shit rapist guts no matter what he does. he can't escape us hating his shitty rapist guts by saying he's very sorry any more than a murderer can escape jail by saying he's very sorry
if this sounds unfair, there is an easy way to avoid it
don't fucking rape people
here's how it reads to me:
-I did this thing. I am genuinely very sorry about it and feel terrible and want to become a better person.
-I still have not fully grasped what I did and am still rationalizing ways at which it is in some universe not my fault, or at least not entirely.
-This is creating a really weird fucking mess of somewhat-apology where I half want to take responsibility and own up to it and simultaneously want people to tell me i'm a good person and hug me
-?????
Like it's just so disconnected to read. I DID THIS REALLY SHITTY THING I TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY I'M SORRY but seriously I'm not actually THAT bad
Like I kind of have weird sympathy for him now? Not in the ohhh poor babyyyy sense, in the jesus dude actually get this professionally sorted out sense
-I did this thing. I am genuinely very sorry about it and feel terrible and want to become a better person.
-I still have not fully grasped what I did and am still rationalizing ways at which it is in some universe not my fault, or at least not entirely.
-This is creating a really weird fucking mess of somewhat-apology where I half want to take responsibility and own up to it and simultaneously want people to tell me i'm a good person and hug me
-?????
Like it's just so disconnected to read. I DID THIS REALLY SHITTY THING I TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY I'M SORRY but seriously I'm not actually THAT bad
Like I kind of have weird sympathy for him now? Not in the ohhh poor babyyyy sense, in the jesus dude actually get this professionally sorted out sense
i would have found this more reassuring if it was less about him giving penance and more about what he's doing to ensure he won't rape again
also, if i was asked to not talk about something in public i wouldn't make "anniversary" plurks about it jfc
also, if i was asked to not talk about something in public i wouldn't make "anniversary" plurks about it jfc
actually you can get out on parole for life in prison.
But don't you see, anon? He's so brave for overcoming it! It's really wonderful to see a man work so hard to get past the trauma of committing rape. He's an inspiration to us all for stoically moving forward, despite the scars he bears for violating someone who trusted him in one of the worst possible ways.
But anon, maybe it was his way of coming to terms with the tragedy!
I'm just putting that out there before one of his shining whiteknights does it for him.
I'm just putting that out there before one of his shining whiteknights does it for him.
I'm sorry you have nothing else at all to do, including memes to play in.
It's ranging between late night and early morning for most of us.
You know.
When most people tend to not be actively online.
jfc idiot.
You know.
When most people tend to not be actively online.
jfc idiot.
i don't even feel that kind of sympathy for him, but other than that, +1. like he knows enough about rape to realize that he did violate somebody, but he can't fully handle that fact mentally and emotionally. so, he's going to grasp at any excuse he can not to feel like total dogshit. until he comes to terms with his actions fully, any apology he makes will ring hollow.
One of many, but of course I did. Since when do plurk purges ever hit the right people?
with the rape culture in our society, we don't have the ability to, as a culture, categorize these things without lessening some crimes when they shouldn't be, and move into victim blaming territory.
Good for you, "dearie," you've completely neglected the fact that other people feel differently than you do!
i am going to laugh so hard if he cut people who would have given him the benefit of the doubt.
and we don't all have to feel the exact same way as you. your way isn't the be all, end all.
As someone who actually works within the confines of our fucked-up criminal justice system, there's actually far less of an emphasis placed on being sorry, repentance and rehabilitation than there NEEDS to be. Frankly, if we could have a lot more psychs to help inmates work through their issues--and believe me, guilt causes a lot of fucking issues--it'd be infinitely better.
You're not wrong. He should never have done it and the consequence is knowing that people will hate him on top of whatever guilt and shame he feels. But I'm sorry, from my place in the system, repentance and rehabilitation is way undervalued.
(Also, it's called parole.)
You're not wrong. He should never have done it and the consequence is knowing that people will hate him on top of whatever guilt and shame he feels. But I'm sorry, from my place in the system, repentance and rehabilitation is way undervalued.
(Also, it's called parole.)
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