this is pretty much me. i don't mind backtagging. i don't mind slow tags. i don't mind waiting. i realize sometimes shit happens and interferes, sometimes.
but if you tell me you're going to be around from X to Y o'clock on Z date, and i rearrange my damn schedule so i can be there, then, so we can get shit done that needs doing and you flake?
you are so goddamn rude that, yeah, i'm going to be pissed. it's no different than breaking an appointment in the real world. i didn't demand we do this. you set the time, place and expectation. damn well meet it or ALERT ME that things have changed, rather than just pulling a no show or procrastinating all fucking night.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-08 08:45 pm (UTC)(link)but if you tell me you're going to be around from X to Y o'clock on Z date, and i rearrange my damn schedule so i can be there, then, so we can get shit done that needs doing and you flake?
you are so goddamn rude that, yeah, i'm going to be pissed. it's no different than breaking an appointment in the real world. i didn't demand we do this. you set the time, place and expectation. damn well meet it or ALERT ME that things have changed, rather than just pulling a no show or procrastinating all fucking night.