I agree with this. If I do find time to join I would really want to be a genuinely active and engaged member of the group and not just join to bolster numbers. Enable people who are interested and can genuinely respect what the game is trying to build, not the ones who are holding off because they know it'd be disrespectful to join and then do nothing/not be able to do as much as they'd like.
this is exactly why I don't like enabling people. the last thing I'd want is to overtask them. respecting your boundaries and being sad forever that you can't join us, nonny.
You sound like a sweetheart, anon. Trust me, I'll be keeping my eye on you guys if/when my time frees up (and if you don't become super big and fast) and if/when that happens I really hope we'll get to play together, a culture that isn't so enable-happy is exactly the kind of attitude I've been looking for. Alas, it's just not to be right now. ♥
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-09 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)+1 to your +1
(Anonymous) 2013-04-09 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)another +1 to this... +1........
(Anonymous) 2013-04-09 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)the earth will be doomed at this rate
+1 to this forever
(Anonymous) 2013-04-10 01:02 am (UTC)(link)weeps gently
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-10 02:38 am (UTC)(link)dude I want people in the game too but best not to encourage them to over-extend themselves.
Original sad!anon
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