NGL. I'm actually relieved other people have suffered like this too. It proves it's a pattern and I wasn't just an anomaly, especially since I was made to feel like I'd done something terribly wrong at the time she dropped me.
Ditto on the relief. I always felt like I must've done something horribly wrong even though SHE picked a fight with ME and me getting upset and angry were what led to her dropping me like a rock. It's kind of comforting to know that it wasn't me, it's a pattern of behavior that she should be trying to grow out of.
I mean, I wish her all the best, I don't necessarily think she's an OMG BAD PERSON, and she's actually a pretty damn good RPer imo, but if she starts feeling pressure from this sort of stuff one day, or finds it hard to make new friends... it's on her. She's the only one who can change this shit.
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-12 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)I mean, I wish her all the best, I don't necessarily think she's an OMG BAD PERSON, and she's actually a pretty damn good RPer imo, but if she starts feeling pressure from this sort of stuff one day, or finds it hard to make new friends... it's on her. She's the only one who can change this shit.